More than 50 million people worldwide suffer from dementia in any given year with the number expected to reach more than 130 million by 2050, according to Alzheimer’s Disease International. As the numbers continue to grow, the need to find ways to connect is crucial for maintaining these individual's ability to communicate with loved ones.
Whether an immediate family member or a dear friend has been diagnosed with dementia, it’s important to fully understand how the disease affects behavior and communication.
Even when a dementia patient is struggling to communicate or communicate logically, the worst thing you can do is talk as if he or she is not in the room. Instead of discussing issues with others, include your loved one in the conversation, no matter how difficult or trying it may be to understand his or her wishes.
A dementia patient may struggle with communication, but it is likely, especially during early stages of dementia, that he or she understands what is happening. Ask your loved one about care preferences, include him or her in casual conversations, and resist the urge to shut down communication just because it is difficult. It may be necessary to discuss preferred forms of communication. For example, does your loved one feel more comfortable communicating verbally or through electronic forms, such as text or email?
Individuals with dementia who feel as if they are being ignored may shut down, fall silent or experience anxiety, depression, or paranoia.
It’s easy to get distracted when you are multi-tasking and caring for a person with dementia. However, when communicating, it’s important to stop what you are doing and give the patient or family member your undivided attention.
When communicating, the Alzheimer’s Association suggests the following:
It can be frustrating as a family member or caregiver when your loved one gets frustrated while communicating. It is also possible that he or she will take out anger and frustration on you. Be patient and know that the disease is complicating his or her emotional and physical state.
In fact, know that as dementia progresses, individuals often feel as if they are losing their self-worth and respect from others, according to the Crisis Prevention Institute. As a result, your loved one feels vulnerable and cares respect.
While your communication mode may change, resist the temptation to approach someone with dementia as if they are a child, unable to care for themselves or even a burden. Offer praise, smile often, make eye contact and show that you care both verbally and non-verbally.
A physical illness or disease can affect individuals at any stage of life and age. In some cases, the symptoms may be mild, but many disorders, such as dementia, can also be life threatening.
This is why support and care is essential at the onset of any type of discomfort for your aging parent or loved one. And, a team effort ensures that you – or a loved one – will navigate chronic conditions in comfort.
It’s important to learn as much about the symptoms and care needed to help support your loved ones. Tap into resources from local and national organizations to boost your knowledge of how the disorder affects everyone involved and to also identify coping skills. In addition, lean on caregivers, such as the qualified staff from Care Indeed, to help with daily living, while coordinating palliative care.
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